Ruminating Can Trip You Up – Not Good For Friendships

By Janet Vargas – Inspirational and Natural Health Writer

Rumination: a form of dwelling on things and overthinking or reading things into people’s words. Sometimes where the damage is, when you don’t have a clue just how much it affects us. It makes us stress and fuss.  It throws our emotions out of whack. Surely we should give it more often the sack.  When we have a disagreement, one can recover soon after and the other take longer, it depends what you both understand after the disagreement, who may be hurt more. So we need to be strong for each-other, our sisters and brothers, and also good friends. We need to show understanding – sometimes the benefit of the doubt. So your thoughts don’t hit you like a clout – then things get foggy and leave you in a

Things You Can Do With Difficult Friendships

By Janet Vargas – Inspirational and Natural Health Writer

These are stressful days we are living in – there’s no doubt about that – and many people are becoming “Needs-Orientated” including Christians often, because they don’t have managing skills. These are Life Skills we all need to develop and some mistakenly expect others to have these Life Skills for them. Or worse still, they want to constantly Off-Load their problems on others as their way of coping or complaining about life and that is SIMPLY UNFAIR.

You have come to the right place if you have problematic friendships. I’ve had a few and I found what to do. Of necessity, it was a real awakening in recent times. Jesus tried to alert me some years ago and I did not take sufficient notice.

Because I was far too Caring, I did …

New Friendship Website-Blog Announcement

By Janet Vargas – Owner Of This Website

THIS NEW WEBSITE COMMENCED ON 30th August 2022. I SET UP PAGES IN THE EARLY STAGES. I AM ALSO ADDING POSTS WHICH WILL BE HELPFUL FOR MAKING FRIENDSHIPS AND IMPROVING NOT-SO-GOOD FRIENDSHIPS and TAKING ON A NEW LEASE ON LIFE WHEN WE MAY PART WITH SOME THAT ARE STRESSFUL, ONE-WAY, TOXIC, EXHAUSTING etc. I HAVE EXPERIENCED SOME ENRICHING FRIENDSHIPS and REALLY POOR FRIENDSHIPS. SO I FEEL I HAVE SOMETHING TO OFFER WITH THE LATTER, WHEN IT COMES TO POSITIVE EMPATHY AS WELL AS SOME PLEASANT FRIENDSHIP POEMS.

Come and visit me here from time to time and see what Poems and Helpful Tips I have for you.
There will be writings by myself AND other writers, to make for balance.
Some websites have a lot to offer when it comes to Friendships. …